who did this:
After one reasonable date, kept texting, chatting and FaceTiming on the phone for a couple of days afters. Pleasant enough. Little bit of flirting.
Then he said he had a rash he was worried about and would I mind having a look on FaceTime. I was puzzled and asked if it was a trick. He said of course not and showed it to me. It just looked like a red rash on his leg. Go to the doctor if you're worried, I said.
Then he started masturbating. I was shocked. I asked him if this is something he often does and he just shrugged.
I said I had to go and I put the phone down.
Why on earth did he do that? Had he decided we weren't a match but he was going to get some sort of sexual thing out of our phone calls?