Hello, I sent off my 63 year old wife of 32 years yo an apartment in Benidorm for a holiday break, she has found a local lover and has move in to the hired apartment for her stay of 3 months. I went there unannounced lastv week when she said she would finish it, when I got back she rekindled it as the guy pursued her, now he's there all the time having sex with herm should Ingo back or just wait for her to come home ? I should say we had a trial separation two years ago and I met someone one for a short time bit did not have sex. WQhat should I dfo as i want to remain married, probably as an open marriage, a