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Porn/Only Fan & online dating

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harerunner · 14/01/2024 14:13

I've seen it mentioned time after time that OLD has changed over the past few years... More men just don't seem bothered about relationships, with so many being either just incels who immediately post dirty comments and dick-pics, or just looking for a quick hook up.

I was wondering if this is linked to the rise in online porn and only-fans, addling brains and distorting men's expectations... ensuring they don't feel like they need to work to get a woman, because easy "relief" is available on line from a limitless range of possibilities, and with none of the strings.

Or is something else going on?

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WhatanEmbarrasment · 14/01/2024 14:57

Probably because it’s so easy to get sex? Just have to look at mumsnet and women often advise other women to sleep with men straight away, very easy for men to get easy sex these days why would they bother with a relationship or putting in effort when they don’t need to?

Indifferentchickenwings · 14/01/2024 16:08

I have seen 2 major changes dating now versus when I was single 2000000 years ago

(1) men who are ok with 100% virtual , be it only fans , dating apps , WhatsApp sexy chat
they ain’t leaving their living room and they are A-OK with that (and many are attached )

(2) pornhub majorly driving mens expectations sexually , esp shaving , anal and photos etc
and in the bedroom too , to a degree

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