Hey guys,
Feeling very very down today! So just to give you some background.. me and my partner have been together 7+ years.. unfortunately cheated back in 2017 and I forgave him.. and we moved on from that. However you never truly recover from it.. its always at the back of my mind.
Its now 2024... unfortunately I lost all my whats app images and videos due to some settings on my phone.
So I went on his phone to send some photos to my phone which I have now lost.
Anyway I found 3/4 photos of a random girl, I've never seen her, these photos are his whats app images so someone sent them.
However I went on his whats app chat and found a chat under 'archive' and its a message from this girl saying 'hi stranger, I know its late but I just wanted to wish you a happy new year' but no replies from him.. not that I can see anyway..
How do I go about all of this..
Its taken me such a long time to put all the garbage cheating stuff behind me.. and we are good as a couple..
But why is he archiving her message and why does he have her pics.. I just don't know..
I just feel so cold about all of this.!
It takes so long to put a broken heart together all by yourself and then something like this happens..