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Friends - Always making the effort

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Helpisneeded100 · 06/01/2024 15:30

Hey,

Just looking for some objective opinions. I feel I am always the one making the effort in the friendship groups I have. If I didn’t make the effort to make plans I feel the friendships would fade and I would be left with nothing. I don’t mind organising nights out, lunches etc and everyone seems to have a good time on them but I guess I am a bit exhausted by always putting myself out there and making the effort. I suppose it would be nice if they made an effort for me?

what would you do in this situation? Let them go and be lonely or keep going as is?

thank you 🙏

OP posts:
Mary46 · 09/01/2024 16:54

My friend is good can you do x date. Otherwise things wont happen. Months pass then. But found others flaky in meetups! Zero commitment

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