Hi All, I hope it's ok for a male to post here?
I'm 60, and my partner is 61. We have been dating just over a year now. We have a great relationship, but as the first year has progressed, the sex has regressed dramatically.
When we first met we both knew we hit it off straightaway. As though early weeks passed we had sex frequently. But this past 6 months it's been less than probably 6 times.
We have spoke of this and the factors of the menopause, dryness, pain, and that I'm large down there. She has said it can take over a week to get over sex.
I have mentioned that it's not all about penetration, and I am happy to go oral. But that doesn't seem an option either. I'm guessing she has lost her libido, but I haven't .
Are there any other people here in the same predicament? Any guidance appreciated.