I’ve been seeing a guy for around 6 months, has been very slow and at times a bit on and off as neither of us was sure what we wanted. But we have both decided to commit to eachother and try to make a go of it. I have really strong feelings for him and I’ve actually enjoyed taking things slow (as past relationships have been the opposite)
due to the way the relationship started, I was still on dating apps when we met (we met online too) and I had dates with 2 other guys during the first few weeks.
I also was in some contact with my most recent ex and there had been some discussion of us meeting to “talk things our” but ultimately I decided not to as he wasn’t good for me anyway.
now that me and my boyfriend have decided to make it serious and commit to one another I feel consumed with guilt about those things and feel like I should ‘confess’ to them. I haven’t slept with anyone else except him since we met but there has been flirting with other people definitely. If I thought we would end up where we are I would never have done those things and I feel awful about it now. I would never dream of entertaining anyone else now.
am I being silly or should I talk to him about this?