Inconsiderate other half

[misslml]

Why are men so inconsiderate sit up to all hours in the morning drinking, then insist on waking you up when you need to get up early. Then inspect you to run about after them before they start a backshift

If this is how your other half acts then he shouldn’t be your other half. Not all men will treat you that way I promise. X

This only happens if you allow it.

Maybe have a think about why you have such low standards/ went for such a crap man?

Yer I agree with PP. What a knob, I'd find someone who shows you some consideration.

Is he an alcoholic? Does he drink like that every night?

My partner works backshift too and has a bad habit of sitting up until 2/3 in the morning watching YouTube then moans all day that he’s tired. We also have a 1yr old who wakes between 7/8 who likes to bounce(I don’t stop him) about the bed to wake up dad haha

Your man does this. I wouldn’t generalise it. I wouldn’t allow this to happen more than once.

He works different shift patterns, but his days off its repeated circle of late nights then naps then moans he is tired! He's a great dad but just feel he doesn't want to spend time with myself for quality time alone. If he's not in bed early for early shift or out on a backshift, he sits on the computer without acknowledging me or wants time to ourself once our child is in bed