I'm in the process of getting a divorce after 10 years of marriage.
Was hoping we could stay living in the family home amicably, while seperated. However, I recently saw some notifications flash up on his phone with pictures of young women.
I decided to check his phone (never felt the need before this) and saw that he has been messaging lots of women/ sex workers on Google chat (?)
He has been stupid enough to pay some of them via gift cards, they all seem to be asking for money through amazon or apple gift cards.
I confronted him and told him to leave, he says he got nothing for the money he sent (which I don't believe) he claims he's basically been scammed by these women, but I'd really like to know what he'd be likely to get for his money? Is it videos, live sex cam, onlyfans? I could read some of the messages but saw no video etc. No point asking him further as he's a massive liar.
Lots of them ask for £50 here and there and are quite forceful in asking!
How do they use the giftcards? It's a whole new world for me.
Anyone have experience of similar?