Directed towards women thinking of having kids without being married.
Unless your partner is agreeable to share all monies, pensions , bonuses, parenting and household management, please don't go there.
I promise you , you are setting yourself for a life of potential poverty and Ill health.
Even with marriage, women in my
Experience do not fare well in divorce when/ if SAHM having given up their careers for household management and parenting. always be financially independent even a small bit put away every week and keep your family/ friends close.
It was the best advice my
Mother ever gave me as-well as ensuring we had a training/ profession to fall back on as I was able
To walk away and set up home when my exh had an affair and broke the family.
As the year closes, I want to thank all posters who have helped me
See the light particularly @watchkeys, @billy1966, @attila @pinkbonbon amd so many others.
I'll never meet you, don't know you but you have helped me turn my
Life around and given me
Much food for thought.
All the best for 2024, to health and happiness .