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Breakfast in bed behaviour

4 replies

Charlene46 · 26/12/2023 12:35

I brought breakfast up to bed this morning. I put my plate etc on my bedside table and gave husband the tray. Anyway the orange juice spilled over him and he went mad !!! Shouting at me telling me telling me that’s me through and through,I don’t do anything right . I was just in shock at his outburst. He then proceeded to slam doors still ranting and raving !
The evening before he said he would prepare Xmas eve dinner and when I went to get a tablecloth a small bowl fell out the cupboard and broke. He had his back to me and he went mad started telling me what the hell was I doing in the kitchen, I had to get out etc! I said to him that i broke the bowl by accident there was no need to be so nasty/intimidating over it. If I speak to him about his behaviour he always says he acts like that because of me !

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DidiAskYouThough · 26/12/2023 12:36

No need to be with a nasty, intimidating, angry man.

Usernamechange1234 · 26/12/2023 12:56

He’s abusive. Why do you stay with him? You’re worth more than this surely?

You need to be your own best friend! You live one life!

SamW98 · 26/12/2023 13:08

Abusive controlling twat. He’s lucky he’s not wearing his breakfast

TheSandgroper · 26/12/2023 13:56

If he doesn’t do it to his boss, he need not do it with you. Such behaviour is 100% on him. ‘Cos, you know, his boss would fire him.

It is possible that roaring at you for whatever reason puts him in his happy place. And he might find it easy to go to his happy place because you will always let him.

I think you may have some thinking to do.

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