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He would rather sleep

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Northygirl · 23/12/2023 23:10

I’ve been with my FH for 2.5yrs. We used to have an amazing sex life but now he’d just rather sleep and is far less affectionate then he used to be. I don’t think he’s playing away as I know his passcode on his phone and yes I have looked.
Ive spoken to him about this but it just ends in an argument as apparently I am putting pressure on him and need to stop comparing to how things used to be. But somethings changed!

OP posts:
Watchkeys · 23/12/2023 23:18

Did you used to trust him?

Northygirl · 23/12/2023 23:24

@Watchkeys I’ve never trusted any bloke 100% since my ex h cheated

OP posts:
DustyLee123 · 24/12/2023 07:42

How old is he? Could he be starting with some ED?

Watchkeys · 24/12/2023 07:49

Northygirl · 23/12/2023 23:24

@Watchkeys I’ve never trusted any bloke 100% since my ex h cheated

Dont have relationships if you can't trust the people you're trying to have them with. It's not healthy - for you. You're essentially choosing to have a relationship with someone you can't trust. Whether they're untrustworthy or not isn't really the issue. They've failed you before you've even met them.

My question was really 'Has your level of trust in him changed?'

Planesmistakenforstars · 24/12/2023 12:30

Could he be depressed?

JamSandle · 24/12/2023 12:47

I love sleep too.

Fs365 · 24/12/2023 15:28

2.5 years in the sex life will probably be easing off,.

bananalover98 · 24/12/2023 20:03

Hello!
Would you mind answering how often you do manage to have intimacy?

I ask because if your trying every night opposed to once a week and he is turning you down it's quite a different situation regarding sex drive x

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