What goes on in strip clubs?

[macaronsandtea]

My husband of 3 years recently told me someone he knows goes to strip clubs and gets private lap dances pretty often, the friend insists it's inky a dance but hubby and I aren't convinced. Does anyone know if these girls actually engage in sex or the like?

Any club that values its licence will have a strict ban on any sort of physical contact or arrangements to meet between dancer and customer. There will be a stage show and a bar on the pricier end. That’s it.

Contact and that sort of thing is banned. They will lose their licence..

I managed reception at one once many years ago..

Although what a couple of gals do on the down low after closing...

The men going to these clubs are generally wealthy sorts, bouncers wont let in people they dont think are "dressed right" and the drinks are often champagne, top notch stuff where i worked...you dont really get a chap going regularly who would spend 20 a drink and then pay a few hundred for a dance every saturday if they are not well paid.
Money talks

Generally, what others said but there are unofficial exceptions. A guy I used to work with was a regular, and he'd always ask to touch for example. He'd respect the answer, always, but he said some say yes. I don't recall anymore details than that about him.

A manager, above our pay grade, who was also a contractor and a co-owner of a firm supplying contractors .. ended up having a regular thing with a woman from one of the clubs. I'm not entirely sure of the arrangement but he gave her a fair old wedge of cash for a lot of contact Mon to Fri. He was back at home with his family and kids at the weekend. He was a horrible, rude, arrogant man