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I feel like he will never be happy

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Milou89 · 16/12/2023 18:44

Hi!
I'm in a new relationship, 3 months with a guy I met about a year ago. Really caring, funny, good values etc...I have nothing to say against our relationship or his behavior with me or other people in général. I saw him yesterday and it hit me suddenly that he seems the kind of person who will never be satisfied in life. He got 3 degrees but still not sure what he wants to do with his life, he had many different jobs over the past 10 years but there is always something that makes him quit. He's really bored with society, politics in general. Other than that, every minute I have with him is great, we have good times, he's really fun to be around. It 's like...I struggle to find the right words...he's searching for his place in our world but he's not fiting? 🤔

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AnneLovesGilbert · 16/12/2023 18:47

How old is he and what’s his relationship history like?

I have no tolerance for people being bored. He’s an adult, he’s responsible for entertaining himself. I’m very rarely bored, the world is fascinating.

Milou89 · 16/12/2023 19:15

He's 32. The think is, he his not boring at all for the people around him. It's like....he is bored for himself but not for the others.

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CharmedCult · 16/12/2023 19:19

Is he solvent, how has he funded doing 3 degrees, does he work while doing them?

Milou89 · 16/12/2023 19:27

He worked while doing them. Never had problems performing in school.

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furtivetussling · 16/12/2023 19:31

I struggle to find the right words...

Perpetually discontented?

alwaysmovingforwards · 16/12/2023 19:40

People like that are just... hard work imo.

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