I have kissed my partner before coming up to bed and then continued in the bedroom, additionally with intimate touching. My partner has said that she would like to orgasm but does not feel that she can be bothered to/its too much effort (she is tired). This has deflated me and I have then accepted that she is too tired. She has then started to touch me, however I feel deflated and feel it is best to sleep. My partner has then become upset because she feels I am rejecting her. Comments please.