I posted about my first date with a guy I met from Bumble a week ago. First date I wasn’t feeling it much and he didn’t pay for drinks (we split some v cheap drinks 50-50) or check I got home ok. I wasn’t expecting to hear from him again.
But he messaged asking for another date the next day, and I explained I was not sure I was feeling a spark. He sent a long message about how he enjoyed the date and we got along and had shared values so he suggested we meet again without pressure of dating. He said the instant spark isn’t always there. He also said I had crazy hot eyes if that helped lol.
So I agreed to see him again. I thought why not - I don’t have many other options and his message was quite nice.
Saw him tonight and while I did fancy him definitely, and enjoyed being around him, he didn’t compliment me, or create any sexual energy. Again he hasn’t messaged to make sure I got home ok. He’s not giving me the signs guys normally give me when they’re hot for you.
I’m very confused ??