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Is this a red flag

11 replies

Changednayme · 02/12/2023 21:40

I’ve been seeing someone new. I noticed a few selfies of women in his gallery and he said they were his friends or ex’s. Turns out he has a whole collection/loads of photos of women saved photos in various places

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TitusMoan · 02/12/2023 21:42

🤮

JustAGirlScotland · 02/12/2023 21:44

Run. Fast.

SamW98 · 02/12/2023 21:47

Massive red flag - walk away now

WatieKatie · 02/12/2023 22:36

Sounds very unsavoury.

TheAverageJoanne · 02/12/2023 22:37

I've got the odd one or two pictures of exes. I've not got a gallery though. Am I a red flag?

Aquamarine1029 · 02/12/2023 22:37

Weirdo alert. Start running.

determinedtomakethiswork · 02/12/2023 22:50

Dump and block.

Veryverycalmnow · 02/12/2023 22:50

I thought you meant in a little art gallery in his house, but I now think you mean on his phone or something. Did you snoop or did he post them online?
Anyway, I think if something makes you feel icky, just talk to him and decide your next move based on his reaction and how you feel.

Pinkbonbon · 02/12/2023 22:53

Either all these women have sent him their selfies (did you send him one?) on WhatsApp or whatever and they've saved automatically to his phone.

Or he goes through ppls profiles and saves their selfies for some reason.

Either way, not great is it.

atthebottomofthehill · 02/12/2023 22:56

Why are men like this 😭 he could have at least made them hidden albums!

Watchkeys · 02/12/2023 23:05

What do you think a red flag is, @Changednayme ?

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