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Jeckyl and Hyde

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justgettingthroughlife · 19/11/2023 10:10

Bit of a long one bear with ... me hubby and DD living at home .
These past few years hubby seems to be getting worse mood wise . He gets so agitated and weekends are a nightmare . He changes from lovely to a horrid shitty arsey attitude and I'm constantly treading on eggshells . He's definitely worse at weekends and I started thinking he prefers being at work ( perhaps another woman ) .
He's getting very forgetful too which I've noticed but after an episode the next day he acts like nothings happened and expects me to be ok with him .
When he wants sex he can be lovely then after he goes back to his old self . When I say this makes me feel totally used he says I'm talking rubbish .
I'm at my wits end with him and am starting to prefer my life doing things on my own or either my DD . Has anyone else experienced this behaviour ?

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Inthegrotto · 19/11/2023 10:12

Can you give examples of the forgetfulness?

How old is he?

It does sound like he could be compartmentalising.

justgettingthroughlife · 19/11/2023 10:18

Just general forgetfulness like the other day he had to take 2 items upstairs for me . He was convinced I had took 1 up which I hadn't he couldn't remember taking the 2 up. He's 60

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Watchkeys · 19/11/2023 10:37

Has anyone else experienced this behaviour

Why do you care? You're walking on eggshells with a man who is only nice to you when he wants sex. You prefer life without him. If nobody else has been through it, what do you think you ought to do? If 1000 people have been through it, what do you think you should do?

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