H moves out on Friday and I'm feeling really down about it tonight........

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can't believe it's finally coming to this - and it's so imminent

yes (interview and him moving out.....)

could you not move it? i think the day will be stressful enough for you

no - I'd rather get it out of the way. Already have a friend lined up to babysit DS2 and 3 (DS1 will be at school)......and DS's and I are going to have fish and chips from the chippy down the road for dinner and I'm treating myself to a nice bottle of wine for when they've gone to bed

yes, turn it into a celebration of the first step in your new life

Only just saw this FAQ & wanted to wish you the best of luck for tomorrow

Will be thinking of you x

yes good luck today

how are you faq?

I'm ok thanks

had a FABULOUS night last night......8.10 and I got a phonecall from my vicar (DS1 answered it) I rang her back - thinking it was something to do with the service tomorrow.......instead I was wished a happy birthday and asked if I'd opened my wine yet.

I hadn't - as H was still around sorting a few bits out.......was then told they "we just happen to have a bottle ready to open and some pizza that's just finished cooking, is it ok if we come over"...

"what/who" I asked....and I was told that it was her, my close friend and another good friend (who happens to be the church warden and a TA at DS1's school to).

So they came over, we talked about nothing, drank wine and ate pizza and it was great

Off out this evening to a "sing-a-long Grease" with the DS's.....

So keeping myself busy...........mind you I've only JUST rinsed and stacked yesterdays dishes LOL

oh and I got a cheque in the post for £52 from my (old) work - that I was still owed for my one nights AL that I accrued in January while still on Mat leave

oh i am glad

that's the kind of people you can call your friends

how lovely

glad you ended up having a good night, how are things today?

yes it was really lovely - and they kept it VERY quiet........I see my close friend on a DAILY basis (often 2/3 times a day what with church/choir/nursery drop-off and pick-up and her doing occasional babysitting for me.....not to mention trips to the Morrisons cafe for coffee) and I'd see her just that afternoon - I didn't suspect a thing!

how lovely!

sing a long a grease sounds fun actually

yes it should be good for a laugh - it's a church organised one - but my friend (as mentioned above) is going with her DD3...and I'm taking all 3 DS's - having an extremely rare late night.

Have a great night FAQ!!!

Don't forget to update us!

Did dh tell you where he was off to in the end?

have fun

well I'm back - DS1 and 2 were absolutely fine - they sat right at the front with a whole load of children they know from Sunday School - and had an absolute ball.

DS3 was pretty good too - he sat/stood/wriggled on my knee for most of it - it was only the last 10 minutes I had to stand up and hold him at the back.

About to have some of the wine that's left over for last night.

WoS - yes he's in Northampton (not too far away, but not so close that we could end up bumping into each other)

Glad you had fun!!

Did you boogie?

well...........as much as you can with a 9 1/2 month old baby (who is in mostly 18-24 month clothes......) in your arms

Northamptons a pretty big place i trioed finding my brother there many occasions and never could. Where about are you then FAQ if you dont mind me asking. Im glad your doing ok.

he's directly opposite the Rugby Club - so nice and easy to find should I ever feel inclined to go and spy on him (not likely LOL).

I'm in Wellingborough.....just noticed that you're in Northants too

My brother used to live there, used too be able t look out of his window and watch the match. Its a small world isnt it? Not far away at all then, I thought there was only me from northants lol

no there are a few of us - couple up in Corby, at least 2 of us in Wellingborough, then at least 2 or 3 in Northampton as well I think.

Where abouts are you (if you don't mind me asking) - I know all the Northants postcode areas (from doing H's route planning for work - he's a TV Licence officer) so a NN? would give me a rough indication if you don't want to be very specific LOL.

glad you had fun