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Am I being unreasonable

11 replies

Cocobellax · 13/11/2023 19:41

So I brought a whole hair care routine to get my hair thicker back to its original state, including vitamins scalp massager and so forth and spent quite a bit to money on these things. My husband has been taking these vitamins too, to which I said can you please not Cus I get enough to last nd can’t afford to buy more and he’s annoyed with me, because I don’t share and what’s in the house belongs to both?

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DisforDarkChocolate · 13/11/2023 19:42

Surely he can buy his own? Is he using your period products and wearing your clothes too?

whiteshutters · 13/11/2023 19:47

Who is paying for all your hair stuff?

Cocobellax · 13/11/2023 19:48

Me

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whiteshutters · 13/11/2023 19:51

Sorry I don't get what the problem is? oh wait he wants to use your vitamins.. tell him to buy his own.

Seas164 · 13/11/2023 19:52

Tell him they're suppositiories.

Cocobellax · 13/11/2023 19:53

Yeah he’s been taking them I didn’t know and I asked him not to because I need them as part of my hair journey, and he’s upset with me because I’m not sharing and he shares with me so I feel guilty now

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Hiddenvoice · 13/11/2023 19:53

Tell him to buy his own and then move them somewhere else to stop him taking more .

Hibambinos · 13/11/2023 19:54

Tell him you will share them, and the cost of them . Then ask for half the price before you buy more.

iklboo · 13/11/2023 19:56

They're vitamins not sweeties. He needs to get a grip.

Pebbles16 · 13/11/2023 20:02

Well if they are related to hair loss, they are not going to benefit him at all as male and female hormones are different

Specso · 13/11/2023 20:06

Just tell him you can both use them as long as he buys some too.

Why do you feel guilty? You don’t have to share absolutely everything just because you’re in a relationship or married. You are entitled to have your own things that you’ve bought for yourself. Despite how some people view it, you don’t merge into one person when you get married. You’re both still individual people. Don’t feel guilty.

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