Odd behaviour from friends offshore worker boyfriend

[Cyeo123]

My friend has been with her boyfriend for 3 years, recently moved in together. He works away for weeks or months at a time. She’s always been paranoid about him being gay which I’ve never understood until I recently found a few things out. He likes her to put dildos up his bum and do him with a strap on. He has toys in the bathroom which he reverses on to. He’s sworn to her he does not fancy men just likes the “prostate” something or other? She found a pack of Viagra in his work bag, with tablets missing, she didn’t know he needed them… apparently they were so he was ready for her when he came home, and used some whilst texting her. He pays for everything and buys her anything and they’re on holiday all the time. He pinched my husbands bum as if it was banter. This man is in his 50s. Do you buy it? Friend now feels like she 100% trusts him and says I’m horrible for doubting him.

Enjoying anal play doesn’t make him gay 🙈 these are the sorts of stereotypes that need to be addressed.

It’s also not really your concern, he’s not your boyfriend. If she is content that he’s straight and she’s happy then what’s the problem?

Maybe I’ve lived a sheltered life but what about the Viagra? Why would he not tell her he uses it? From what I understand viagra is so you are ready in the moment. What would the rush be if he’s on his own.
In regards to your question I won’t address that as I’m trying to remain as anonymous as possible but believe me my “friend” is a concern.

It does seem you’re a bit naive, yes. Lots of men enjoy anal stimulation in various ways. Many would be afraid to admit it because, as you’ve just shown, people would question their sexuality.

I’m a female and never used viagra, but from what little I know about it, you don’t just pop one and get a raging stonk on. It just helps you achieve and maintain one but you still need to then be aroused. Maybe he uses it for prolonged masturbation? Only he can know that. I imagine it’s not something every man wants (or needs) to disclose.

Without any more information it’s pretty hard to understand what the problem is.