In your experience , do men take viagra for ED when engaging in solo play.

[neverminder]

Just that.
I have no cheating worries but so wonder why he would have viagra in his wash bag, three used. We're only back together and he was seeing someone for a few months before me. He doesn't seem to have these issues when together and says he doesn't take it.
Is it a thing to take it for solo play?
I'm out of the loop a long but one now!
I guess I need to keep an eye on his wash bag..

I'm confused about what worries you have if you have no cheating worries?

So you’re worried he is using it but not saying - perhaps he’s embarrassed?

I think that's a question that any woman would find hard to answer!

I can see why someone might try it solo, the first time they took it, just to see if it really worked.

But from what you've written (that he was seeing someone else recently) I would guess they are left-overs from then

A quick google search also suggests they do.

Personally I couldn't manage all this guessing and wondering though. I'd just ask him straight out in a non aggressive way.

I'm only asking if , in your experience, he could be still taking it , if only for solo fun.
I should have added that he had a mild brain injury over the last few
Months that has changed the sexual dynamic between us, for the better. He is very aroused a lot of the time and our interactions on text are increasingly sexual.He's early 50's.
Thoughts?

Any other thoughts please ?

I dated someone with ED. I was surprised to learn that men can and do masturbate when they are flaccid.

Are you sure he’s not been using them when with you?

I'm
Really not sure! He's never been as aroused and focused on intimacy and pleasing me
And is trying things he previously was shy to try. I've no idea what's got into him!

I think you have to discuss this with him

it’s totally natural to have some worries when you find these items

and if you don’t feel like you can openly discuss it you have a bigger problem

Yes, OH does and says it improves the experience for him, he doesn't like "solo play" when not fully hard.