My BF has been suffering from depression and was recently diagnosed with an illness which he is now receiving treatment for and can be managed with some lifestyle changes. We have not had sex for well over a year and said the reason was due to him feeling unwell and depressed. I accepted this and was supportive, didn’t put any pressure on him as thought things would resume once he was feeling better. However an old friend returned into his life and he made it incredibly obvious that he was attracted to her and had sexual desire. After many arguments, he eventually reduced most of his contact with her.
Since then there still has been no interest in me in that way, he says he is still attracted to me but now not so sure.
Affection is still there and other areas of the relationship are good.
is it just had he is simply not sexually attracted to me anymore?