Husband throw clothes at my head

[wifeandmotherto4]

I came home after being out with the kids for a few hrs at a play centre and i was stressed and snappy. Our youngest was wet from jumping in puddles so husband undressed him and put him on his lap while he was on the sofa. I throw him some clothes for him that i thought was ok but he then throw the clothes back hard at me head then he left and slammed a door. afterwards he was silent and didn't say anything i asked for an apology he said no so i said i wanted him to leave. He then went to bed at 5 and hasn't got back up.

i dont know what to do 😞

I wouldn't be too happy if somebody threw clothes at me to begin with. Why did you throw clothes at him? Ok you feel stressed, that doesn't give you a right to throw them in the first place. Then you want him to apologise? .... strange

I didn't throw clothes out of anger or stress. i throw them in a way i do all the time. like when he asks me for the remote i throw it and so does he.
He throw them out of anger

Why was he angry?

Sounds like he was upset he had to parent his child. Cunt.

I'm guessing this is just the tip of the iceberg.

Something's up. He could easily have just re-dressed the child and carried on. You took the kids out, he didn’t so he can't be fuming over that. He needs to explain his reaction.

Did you throw them what he would perceive hard?
If not what a childish idiot!

Is he a good, hands on dad or does he expect you to do all the childcare.