Cleaners

[sadgapyearmum]

Mu dads cleaner has called me to say she didn't know how much longer she can go on cleaning for him (she is lovely) as this week he has been nasty to her and accused her of stealing from him and breaking a dish. I have not mentioned it to him as I am unsure what to say

I’d be getting him checked for dementia, and making sure he doesn’t have any cash in the house.

Agree with PP to rule things out.

Perhaps also ask him how he likes having a cleaner/hope having her round is helpful.. address any of his concerns, give reassurance.

Ask the cleaner to expand, apologise and say you will clear things up with your dad if she would consider giving it one more chance.