I’ve been dating someone for nearly a year now, another woman, however over the last 3-4 weeks or so, I’ve had an inkling that they are potentially seeing someone else…
We live a couple of hours away, but have talked about moving in together at some point in the future, so we don’t see each other during the week at the moment. There has been 3 different occasions now over the last 3 weeks where a ‘friend’ of hers has been randomly attending events where she shouldn’t be at… it’s to do with sports that GF does but her friend doesn’t… which means that GF has been taking this friend with her and not telling me.
For example, she said that she was going to watch a show with her sports team but then I found out from photos that were posted that this friend who doesn’t even know her sports team was there too… so obviously GF has taken her with her and not mentioned it, and then today her and her sports team was going out after their match and this friend is in the photos again today… meaning that GF has taken her along to her match so her friend can watch her and again not mentioned this to me.
AIBU to find this really weird and to think something is going on? How do I even ask her about this?
edited to add - she has also been out until really late, being quite vague about where she has been and not even looking at my messages whilst out recently too…