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Anyone's OH a smoker

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byteme1011 · 20/10/2023 20:09

My partner smokes weed I'd say fairly heavily (didn't realise how much until we moved into together) and he is doing it regularly indoors and I'm getting sick of it. Any advice how to persuade him without getting the 'you're nagging me'. He regularly promises next one outdoors but alas he's doing it right now in the living room barely out the window (we're in scotland, it's freezing/windy). I don't smoke, have no issue with it if he does it outside or at least in a way the smell/smoke doesn't get in.
And a wee vent, I came home last night to soup on the stove asked him if it was for grabs aye so I had a bowl, he 'forgot' that he had used weed oil and pumpkin seeds soaked in cannabis butter; cue me drinking electrolytes really convinced why i felt so dizzy etc till the penny dropped; i'm not really happy with this - i totally get it was an accident but i don't think he realises how much /cost this habit (lets be honest addiction) costs him in terms of health/time/money

OP posts:
Blueberrycreampie · 21/10/2023 10:59

I'm furious on your behalf! I would be so upset if someone let me eat something that had drugs in it, and don't think I could get over it!

Blueberrycreampie · 21/10/2023 11:01

Also I can't help thinking he knew fine well that you'd have the 'soup' and now anytime you moan at him he can say you're a druggie as well!

Inca22 · 21/10/2023 12:10

Honestly, I'm 35 years in. It won't ever change. in fact it will get worse. The mood swings, the selfishness, the impact to your health and any future children will be negative. You probably won't leave but please look back on my post saying you should.

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