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Help! Argument with my Boyf! Am I in the wrong!

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Marnie1818 · 18/10/2023 23:50

Help! My boyfriend used to want to see me loads and now it’s a struggle to get him to see me. We both have kids and when i have my weekend off he has his kids and visa Versa so we get little time alone. He went to Italy for a lads weekend two weeks ago so I didn’t see him then and last weekend he had his kids so I only saw him on the Sunday with them. We saw each other last night and I suggested seeing each other on Saturday but today he’s told me he’s now made plans to go to a beer festival with his friends! I find it’s rude as it’s my kid weekend and he still expects me to fit in around him and it’s rude to make other plans when we had plans. When I bring it up he shouts over me, says things like we’re going around in circles, tells me to call him back when I want to see him etc and hangs up! He just barks at me! He’ll now ignore me as he’s stubborn! I don’t like how he talks to me and I feel that I’ve done nothing wrong and I’m setting a boundary by saying making plans with me and then getting a better plan and cancelling is not ok! Am I in the wrong??

OP posts:
Switcher · 19/10/2023 20:05

Room 101!

Boopeedoop · 19/10/2023 21:38

He doesn't want to be with you, he just doesn't want to be the one to end it.

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