First love

[Desolate2nite]

My boyfriend from many years ago added me on Facebook last week. Proceeded to tell me how he always thought about me, etc and how good it would be to meet up. But of course he's married and looking for no strings fun.
Not looking for advice, just venting. What a dick and yes he is now unfriended and blocked. Was tempted to message the wife but don't think I will

What a dick he turned out to be.

If it was my DH acting like this I’d like to know so pls consider sending his wife screen shots via messenger.

Oh yuck.
What an utterly disgusting specimen he is.

I'd probably be sending her a screenshot.
Especially if he's not local to you.

I would opt for the quiet life. You have decided no, just move on and forget it.

I’d send the screenshot to his wife.

I'd want someone to send a screenshot of those messages to me.

Whether you do or not is up to you - I know I wouldn't feel comfortable sending them to someone else! But I would want to know if my husband had done this.

Did he actually say he wanted ‘no strings fun’ or is that just your opinion?
I have an old boyfriend from when I was 18 who I’d be very interested to find out about and get in touch with again. Just for curiosities sake. Sex would definitely not be on the agenda!

I would definitely message the wife. The arsehole deserves everything he gets and his wife deserves the dignity.

His wife deserves agency and some control over her life. Least you know that he is another loser and you were well rid of him.