Personal question I know…! I use to have a high sex drive, my partner has a low sex high drive / not interested in sex really. He says sex for him gives him anxiety, anxiety over performance and for him it’s just easier to not have sex. Slowly over time I’ve just got use to not having sex. We were watching something on tv lastnight and my husband was saying do people really have sex every week, how do they do it?! Before my marriage, I’d had a really healthy sex life in previous relationships, having sex a few times a week. Life is different now, I have a nearly 4 year old. She goes to bed at 7, we have the time to have sex but he’s not up for it. How important is sex? The last time we had sex was back in June and before that was February. I’m lucky to have sex 3 times a year these days 😅. Can it work forever without sex?! Or am I fair to maybe discuss it with my husband?!