My husband had visa appointment today so that we can visit my family together (as a fam of 3).
Just to give more in depth. My and my son came back from my home country just few days ago. It was tough trip (teething, fevers, I was sick myself and no one was helping me with baby so I was on myself for 3 weeks). I also found out I'm pregnant again, so I'm probably more emotional. Me and baby are not well, me flu and baby teething with cold. So I asked husband to go by himself and sort out papers. He's calling after appointment saying that he haven't had all papers, they gave him list and if he can bring it within one hour they will submit it. If no, he needs new appointment (there is no appointments, extremely hard to book it in, I've booked this one 2 months in advance, hence me and baby travelling alone first time). I've asked him to come home while I'll sort out papers and he can pick up print outs and go back there (30 min train one way, he is not well too). He said, I can't go back we will find another way. I couldn't quite believe it.. I knew I won't get any more any appointment, meaning we won't be going to visit my family (that would be only 2nd time in last 10 years he would fly to my country.. I've been been to his twice and we planning to go there in Jan for 3rd time to visit his family). I'm extremely angry, I guess because of hormones too. But I'm done sorting this out. A week prior the appointment I asked him to check what papers he needs, while I was abroad alone with baby and working remotely. He said he didn't had time.. I've already said my whole family that he's coming and now it's gone. Funny, he was all in for going there the night before, I think he felt bad about language barrier and lack of proper service and maybe that I let him go alone.. but still