How have you broken the news to your DP/H that you’re not happy and things need to change?

[Rainallnight]

DP and I have been having some tough times. She believes it’s normal and a reaction to life events. I’m unhappy with the level of discord and stress and want us to go to counselling.

I’m finding it hard to express how unhappy it’s making me when she brushes things off. If you’ve managed to deal with a similar situation, I’d love your advice.

How do want things to change ?

Are you considering ending the relationship ?

I told my DH 2 years ago that I wasn’t happy, he said he’d change, it lasted 5 days. I’m still here drowning in resentment, wishing he’d piss off.
‘My advice - decide why you want, say what you want, and stick with it. Don’t be like me.