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I got flustered around him

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Pensl · 20/09/2023 19:23

Last year at work a married man kept trying to get my attention. I was single and brushed it off as I don't date married men. I am in a relationship now.

Today he came up to me at the end of the day and asked how I was. He said all day I looked engrossed. A bit weird he had been observing me. I was friendly with him but felt myself getting flustered. I think he is attractive because he is confident but would never do anything. I could see he was being awkward and getting flustered too dragging the conversation out. I know I will see him again but don't want him to think I fancy him, I hate getting flustered.

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Tyremarks · 20/09/2023 19:43

But it sounds as if you do fancy him…

Trinity69 · 20/09/2023 19:44

I used to work with a guy who had this effect on me. He was about 30 years older than me and I most certainly didn’t fancy him at all, but still got all silly around him! I just can’t explain it!

Pensl · 20/09/2023 20:26

@Tyremarks I do fancy him but don't want him to know that as it is not right as I have partner and so does he.

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Catsafterme · 20/09/2023 20:35

If he already kinda tried previously he would have no qualms trying again and again until he knows it's off the table, especially if he's confident with it.

He may realise you are behaving that way and find him attractive already and although you wouldn't, he would so he will maybe try find an in.

Just ignore him and if he keeps trying or you feel uncomfortable tell him to back off so he knows for sure.

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