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He is drunk again fourth time this week wow this man ( my so called husband ) has issues . i asked him why he keeps disappearing upstairs( for a secret vape I think ) .

I am not allowed any explanation but he did ask “ who does society want to be living at this moment in time you or me ? Who is this most pathetic ?

I presume because he is working and I am currently not .
what an evil cruel bastard thing to say . I want to leave .

Just spoken to W A the places are so far away . I will give them refuge a ring .
i feel terrified .

Would I be in within my rights to report him to the police so he can’t come near me ? Why should
i have to leave ? He should go !!! .

Absolutely worth speaking to the police. They will need evidence of a crime though, I would think. Women's aid are good at helping you identify whether there are grounds to apply for any kind of order.

That's true! If you have evidence, he should definitely be the one to leave and im sure the police will help. Do you have means to support yourself in case he cuts you off financially/ wont pay bills etc? Just weigh up all the options so you know the best course of action to take with the best support available for you.

i think you just have to detail the current abuse and they will ask him to leave? He’s abused you verbally and threatened you, you don’t feel safe. I would call the police they are very good in these situations. And you’ll have evidence for court etc. if you need it. Take care, and be gentle with yourself it takes time but you’ll be ok x