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He says he loves his ex

33 replies

Itllbeallright · 14/09/2023 17:55

We've been together for six months and get on so well and he says he cares about me, but I told him I love him and he admitted he still loves his ex. I'm heartbroken. Is there a chance this will change?

OP posts:
Opentooffers · 14/09/2023 21:53

He's a commitment- phobe, if we take him T face value of what he says - which could be BS. It's the 6 month mark, around the time where you shit or get off the pot. He wants to get off, but he's making you do it by saying stuff that would end it for most people.
In love with the ex he dumped still, after all this time? I doubt it, at best he preferred her, but still ended it.
If your not even classes as a GF after 6 months, it's time to bin, if that's what you want.

Dery · 14/09/2023 21:54

He’s a twat, OP. He broke up with the woman he now says he loves but he’s kept a flame burning for her which handily prevents him getting serious with you. How old is he? I’m hoping he at least has the excuse of being young. Whether he is young or not, he’s managing to hurt and waste the time of a number of women by the sound of things. Let him go.

Itllbeallright · 14/09/2023 22:11

He's not young.

OP posts:
Kimten · 14/09/2023 22:35

So an old twat, then?

The trash took itself out.

WorseDecision · 14/09/2023 22:37

Why are you even still with him? He's wasting your time.

DiddlyDonut · 14/09/2023 22:38

I'm sorry, that must have been hard to hear.

At least he's told you.

Don't stay, honestly it will cause you so much self-doubt and harm.

DiddlyDonut · 14/09/2023 22:39

Sorry, just saw he has broke up.

He shouldn't have been in a relationship if he wasn't over his ex. Shows what kind of character he is and you're well shot.

Aquamarine1029 · 14/09/2023 22:44

Itllbeallright · 14/09/2023 21:51

He already broke it off.

He's done you the biggest favour of your life.

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