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Finally met a decent one

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DeepFriedKermit · 14/09/2023 03:59

Been OLD for awhile and finally after kissing lots of frogs, I've found a decent one.

Been on 5/6 dates now whereby he's very considerate and funny. His messaging style/frequency is the same as mine.

The only thing is he's a little shorter than me but overall, that doesn't matter a jot.

I smile when I think of him and he always messages good morning.

Anyone disheartened with OLD please keep going as you never know.

OP posts:
OhamIreally · 14/09/2023 05:47

No chance. Never going back to that cess pit.

Hope it works out for you OP.

Iloveavocadoes · 14/09/2023 05:49

Congratulations!

BCBird · 14/09/2023 05:52

Woo hoo. That great OP. I have had 2 relationships via OLD. Would like another relationship eventually do will be back on agsin at some point.

Summer2424 · 14/09/2023 05:58

Hi @DeepFriedKermit
So nice to hear hun! I met my now husband on OLD. Have an amazing time and enjoy every minute xx ❤

SpringleDingle · 14/09/2023 06:05

I met a goodun on OLD too. We are 9 months in and he is consistent, kind, funny, the sex is great. No hint of headfuckery or a single red flag! I am also very happy 😃. Enjoy yours!!

coodawoodashooda · 14/09/2023 06:14

Well done op. Were you in a particularly positive headspace?

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DeepFriedKermit · 14/09/2023 07:05

OhamIreally · 14/09/2023 05:47

No chance. Never going back to that cess pit.

Hope it works out for you OP.

This is a shame to hear - I know there's a lot of cess to wade through but it's worth it

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DeepFriedKermit · 14/09/2023 07:06

coodawoodashooda · 14/09/2023 06:14

Well done op. Were you in a particularly positive headspace?

Was actually about to give it up but tried Facebook dating - he liked me first but I messaged him as his pictures were lovely

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OrlandointheWilderness · 14/09/2023 07:08

I let a good one via online dating. 2 1/2 years on he is still a good one 😂

Yettisrus29 · 14/09/2023 07:11

OhamIreally · 14/09/2023 05:47

No chance. Never going back to that cess pit.

Hope it works out for you OP.

This 110% I don't time or energy to wade through the cess pit and then have to put up with the crap that goes with it. I intend to meet him the old fashioned way (I actually have to pluck up the courage to talk to him mind).

But good to the OP.

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