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So fed up - strict DH

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Nowheretogo1985 · 12/09/2023 19:48

I need some advice please. I'm honestly at a loss.
Me and my husband both have different ways of parenting our children. He is harsh and overly strict with them in my opinion. I'm slightly softer and prefer a different approach. I really don't like the tone in which he speaks to them and also to me. This evening I said our daughter cried when she spilt her milk because she was probably worried he was going to roar at her. Now because of this comment (which i said in front of the kids tbf) he's taken himself into a different room as he didn't think that was a fair comment. I've been off work the last couple of days ill too, I'm feeling so stressed at the moment and low. And now I'm sat in the living room by myself he doesn't want to be with me. Like a punishment. Tried to talk to him about it but he walked off, he is so annoyed with me.
So fed up 😪

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RiderofRohan · 14/09/2023 09:47

I suggest he gets counselling for anger management. If he is still unable to change then you need to think carefully about your future with this man. You and your kids deserve to breathe easily, that's what a home is for! Kids who can't just be kids grow up with all sorts of emotional hangups.

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