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Husband’s t-shirt

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Mopeydopeylaloo · 01/09/2023 18:50

Name-changed for this as I know it’s silly. Just interested in other’s views. DH is wearing a t-shirt with a picture of the lead singer from Mazzy Star on it- he has a big thing for her and when we were dating mentioned about getting off to a video of her. He’s wearing it on my birthday. It makes me slightly uncomfortable and I mentioned it after a couple of drinks. He thinks I’m ridiculous, and so do I, but just interested if I’m the only one who is slightly uncomfortable with partner wearing clothing with pictures of people they fancy (who they’ll never meet!)

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gwenneh · 01/09/2023 18:51

I know it’s silly.

You're right, it is.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 01/09/2023 18:53

Hmmm talking if Mazzy Star. I have a t shirt with The Jesus and Mary Chain on. I used to fancy them.

DH has no problems with it. Even if l wore it on his birthday.

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Mopeydopeylaloo · 01/09/2023 18:57

I like your music taste. Did you get off to them frequently though? 😀

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Aquamarine1029 · 01/09/2023 18:58

If you had a massive crush on some actor, let's say Brad Pitt, and you've told your husband about this crush and how you've masturbated to Brad's image, I'd be willing to bet he wouldn't be thrilled about you wearing a shirt with a giant Brad head on it.

Are you out at a pub or restaurant? If you are, for me personally, my biggest issue would be that he doesn't dress a bit nicer for going out and having drinks.

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Mopeydopeylaloo · 01/09/2023 19:01

That’s an excellent point re being out, but no we’re just at home (with clean other t-shirts to wear within easy reach 😂)

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Littlemisslonley · 01/09/2023 19:38

This would bother me. Not massively but I wouldn't like it especially on my birthday....

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Mopeydopeylaloo · 01/09/2023 19:42

Glad it’s not just me! 😀 We’re not having a row over it or anything- I’ve just slightly harrumphed!

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Hibiscrubbed · 01/09/2023 20:00

He told you he wanked to a video of her? Like, a music video? Lovely.

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Mopeydopeylaloo · 01/09/2023 20:18

Yep repeatedly (when he was a teenager) 😂

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TrishM80 · 01/09/2023 22:13

Aquamarine1029 · 01/09/2023 18:58

If you had a massive crush on some actor, let's say Brad Pitt, and you've told your husband about this crush and how you've masturbated to Brad's image, I'd be willing to bet he wouldn't be thrilled about you wearing a shirt with a giant Brad head on it.

Are you out at a pub or restaurant? If you are, for me personally, my biggest issue would be that he doesn't dress a bit nicer for going out and having drinks.

I'd say he wouldn't give a shit, it's not as if Brad Pitt is gonna walk through the front door and take her away.

DonnaBanana · 01/09/2023 22:59

When you say “getting off” do you mean he admitted he masturbates to her music videos? I would find that very weird tbh

Manova14 · 01/09/2023 23:17

If he's a Mazzy Star fan he's probably no spring chicken right? I would find this a bit ick and juvenile, it would be like my 50-something husband having a Debbie Harry poster (as he did in his teenage bedroom) on the wall.

harerunner · 02/09/2023 05:52

Wearing a t-shirt with a picture of a rock star on it is juvenile, whoever is on it.

Brightandshining · 02/09/2023 06:00

I love Hope Sandoval.

This is silly.
So he jerked off over her as a teen. Doesn't mean he isn't a fan of the music and can't wear the band t-shirt.

Pretty sure my husband jerked off over Debbie Harry as a teen. I'd have zero problem with him wering a Blondie tshirt.
He's never going to meet her lmao

Readingineading · 02/09/2023 06:06

Well, speaking as someone who's Pintrest is mainly pictures of a young Harrison Ford ( im in my 50's, 😉 ) you are being very unreasonable. My DH thinks Diana Ross is gorgeous . Its harmless 🤷‍♀️

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