Husband and facebook

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How would you feel if a mutual friend posts a batch of holiday pics on Facebook, some bikini shots but always with a friend in the picture, then your DH likes the post but also goes through and likes each individual picture. Is that a bit creepy for friend and would that bother you? She has loads of likes for the post but he is the only person who has liked individual pictures.

Sleezy yes !

Eeeeewww!

Well by liking them he's left his self open to criticism. It's insensitive to you as his wife and just leaves him looking like a letch....have you told him how it makes you feel?

No, I haven’t talked to him about it as I am pretty sure it will lead to an argument and he will probably just delete me as a friend from his Facebook. I am not sure if he just doesn’t really get Facebook etiquette and how it looks on him and me.

If that is what his reaction would be to him clearly overstepping a boundary and essentially being a creep, why on earth are you with him?

Your latest update sounds like this is not a one off.

He threatened to delete me once before when I criticised something he had posted on Facebook but completely different to this.

Ewww, this is so disrespectful. TBH I honestly believe we give men too much wiggle room with the idea they ‘don’t understand’. They’re fully grown adults able to function in modern society he knows exactly what he’s doing.

The fact he has shut you down with his I’ll defriend and block you rubbish before makes it so much worse.

If you want to stay, you need to lay down some extremely firm boundaries with him. If he doesn’t listen then it’s a reflection on how much he values your feelings over his own needs.

Thats so awful, how embarrassing! 😳😳😳

Are you "allowed" to criticise him IRL?

All this "I'll block you" nonsense. You are supposed to be his wife.

Although to be fair if you post many bikini pictures surely you are aware that sad men will letch over them. Might even start thinking you are showing off your body so just they can look at it?

It all sounds a bit pathetic. I would be such a sarcastic cow if my H, but he really wouldn't, did this. As long as you have a mate he is still friends with you can always see what he's up to on there.

See if he actually does block you. Because that would be the beginning of the end. I would just lose all respect for him. As in, no I'm not going to fuck you don't you have Facebook bikini shots for that nowadays arseholery sarcasm. Or I am not going to launder your underpants your Facebook bikini girls can do that.

Nah that's sleazy as fuck. He's a sleaze AND it disrespects you as everyone can see that. No way would I be with anyone like this.

Hang on a minute, your husband threatened to delete you as one of his friends on Facebook?!? That's ridiculous, pathetic of him. Surely if he doesn't even consider you a Facebook 'friend' then he is showing you that he thinks more of acquaintances than he does of his own wife?!

Creepy af. Liking the general post fine but going through each pic? Awkward

Sleazy, very sleazy