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Is this weird

22 replies

Coley32 · 19/08/2023 20:29

So my bf wanks too pg lingerie hauls woman trying on underwear all you can see is arse …..

he didn’t come home the other night straight after work yes I checked his phone and saw he was searching a specific you tuber hauls .

he wants too them as he can’t access porn

really has annoyed me and made me feel shitty the fact he would rather stop in a lay by after work to have a wank instead of come home to me.

kind of weird behaviour is it not ?

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Robotik · 19/08/2023 20:30

How do you know he isn’t just watching?? Has he admitted it?

Dotcheck · 19/08/2023 20:32

He stops in a lay by for a wank?

Ewwwwwwwwwww

Original poster
Coley32 · 20/08/2023 01:02

I mean you can tell from his behaviour and underwear

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Original poster
Coley32 · 20/08/2023 01:02

My thoughts exactly and the fact it’s pg stuff aswell slightly confused

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OneMoreCookieMonster · 20/08/2023 03:24

100% weird and illegal maybe (?) Wanting in public...

OneMoreCookieMonster · 20/08/2023 03:24

Wanking *

JMSA · 20/08/2023 07:54

What's pg lingerie?

Original poster
Coley32 · 20/08/2023 08:25

You tube try on thong hauls —-it’s literally pg can only see bum cheeks

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JorisBonson · 20/08/2023 08:26

Why can't he access porn? Misses point of thread entirely

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Coley32 · 20/08/2023 08:27

Restrictions on his phone I’m not sure but just doesn’t let him

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Justcallmebebes · 20/08/2023 08:50

JMSA · 20/08/2023 07:54

What's pg lingerie?

This

MarshmallowsOnToast · 20/08/2023 08:53

PG as in the film rating... parental guidance.

Nothing X-Rated or naked.

JMSA · 20/08/2023 08:58

Anyway OP, I would be grossed out by this.
Hope you're ok Flowers

Zanatdy · 20/08/2023 09:00

Why does he have restrictions on his phone so he can’t watch porn? Who put them on?

would I be angry he stopped in a lay-by for a wank instead of coming home and watched a woman trying on knickers? You bet, that would be the end for me

Original poster
Coley32 · 20/08/2023 09:04

Makes you feel degraded I’m in a hair place as it’s not the first time he’s been watching these

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Original poster
Coley32 · 20/08/2023 09:04

*shit place

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Whattodowithit88 · 20/08/2023 09:11

Sometimes flying solo is just what people do. Requires less effort and is fast. I still have sex with my dp though, suppose it’s a problem if he does it all the time, but now and again is normal, people masturbate, not much you can do about it really. Try talking to him, if it’s constant and because he can’t be bothered to put the effort in with you, then dump him, find someone better.

Aprilx · 20/08/2023 09:12

Well the lay-by stops are really weird, but I also don’t know what pg is or “hauls” in this context. But overall, I don’t like the sound of it no.

LyingontheGrassonSundaymorningofLastWeek · 20/08/2023 09:13

He's got time to wank in laybys, but not to work out how to remove the parental controls on his phone?

Flipflops123 · 20/08/2023 10:49

LyingontheGrassonSundaymorningofLastWeek · 20/08/2023 09:13

He's got time to wank in laybys, but not to work out how to remove the parental controls on his phone?

Might be a work phone

Flipflops123 · 20/08/2023 10:52

Aprilx · 20/08/2023 09:12

Well the lay-by stops are really weird, but I also don’t know what pg is or “hauls” in this context. But overall, I don’t like the sound of it no.

What the op means is...
He goes into YouTube and searches for women who try on batches of new clothes from primark, next, shein wherever. Usually so other women can see how they look on 'normal' women instead of models. But in between trying the outfits on, the women are stripped down to their underwear.

He's wanking to these videos.

PG implies that, like the film rating, there's nothing particularly racy or erotic.

A 'haul' refers to the batch of clothes they are trying on

Dcluk95 · 20/08/2023 19:04

Don't think the actual try on material is weird (laybys another matter). Attractive women in skimpy outfits, why would that be weird? What WOULD be a problem is if you aren't having sex as much as you'd like as a result. In my good relationships (2/3) I never wanked and if I did it was to them because I had the option of sex with them instead. In my bad one I wasn't that attracted to her and the moment I wanked rather than sleep with her and realised I had no interest in wanking to her material I ended it. Not fair on her

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