My boyfriend sent me a message to say he is with his friends at a quiz now. I had no idea he was going. A few times before he has let slip to say he has met with friends a few days ago but did not think to mention it to me. I find it strange as I always mention a few days before and the day before if I am seeing my friends. I have no problem him seeing his friends but it seems like he plans all this in secret. I am honest so why can't he be clear. My friends usually let their husbands know before as they have to sort out childcare arrangements in advance.