I was in a relationship with a guy who was extremely keen on me for 7 months. Things moved very quickly and we were committed and in love. Lots of serious talk about how things would progress - he said he hadn’t felt this in years. It felt real and natural didn’t feel like love bombing. My friends met him and loved him - they were so happy I’d met someone decent. A few months later, he started blowing hot and cold - no idea why. I tried to talk about it and he would just say it’s work stress. We had a week long trip booked, he said he was so excited and couldn’t wait to spend it with me. Two weeks later, due to work stress, we were both a little crabby. Then a week later he dumped me. Said he didn’t feel how he should about me. That he needs to be alone and find himself. After the break up, my friend sends me a screenshot of him ‘active’ on bumble and hinge.
What actual hell ?