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Speaking to DH

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Mummytoofour · 11/08/2023 22:02

How do you bring up bedroom talk or things you like & don’t without it turning in to a row?

my DH gets annoyed quiet quickly when things aren’t his way!

  1. I need to speak to him about how I don’t like that he’s watching porn (even though he denies it)

  2. aren’t I enough that he has to watch porn?

  3. he’s never masturbated in our 15years of marriage but did yesterday

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Mummytoofour · 12/08/2023 22:45

Anonposter123 · 12/08/2023 22:42

@Mummytoofour
As hard as it is, I think you need to try and have a calm conversation about it all with him.
Try to use sentences which are.... when you do this it makes me feel like this.

And hopefully he can see your side

Thank you, I will certainly try this approach rather than jumping in accusing him.

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Anonposter123 · 12/08/2023 22:45

@Mummytoofour good luck, keep us posted x

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