His Texts are off

[Ash2345f]

I met a man about 4 weeks ago we’ve been seeing each other 3-4 a week since then dating etc coming round to mine and we have slept together several times now it’s all amazing. Anyway 2 weeks back we said we didn’t want to date anyone else and we would become exclusive. This week I’ve been away on a girls holiday for three days texting has been consistent then Thursday night no reply and didn’t hear from him all night and the next day until I text him anyway he messaged back this morning asking how I was and said he couldn’t wait to see me tomorrow (Saturday) plans to see each other. Anyway I messaged back but again no reply and he has left me on read?! Is this a red flag or am I looking too much into this I really like him so I’ll be gutted if he’s trying to cool things off very mixed signals

You'll just have to wait till you see him and ask what was going on. I would be a bit suspicious about who he was with/what he was up to on that night just because anytime anyone I know discovers cheating they always seem to say 'I remember that night so clearly! It was so weird he wasn't replying'

But you've known him a month so is it really cheating anyway at this stage....

At 4 weeks it's quite common for them to still be working out how much they want a relationship with you though so it's very possible he might cool off - try not to make your whole happiness hinge on this. Read lalalaletmeexplain book block delete move on I think it would help you get a bit more zen about dating and Matthew gusset videos x

Leave messaging him, you've done enough, let him message you if he's interested, it's got to be mutual to be worth it, also don't always be so readily available, he needs to learn to put in effort and make plans.