Only fans mmmm

[Kathaummer]

Nothing major but I’ve just about been in the head space to go back dating, had a couple of dates with this guy he’s single a year or so and has one child so of course I had a look at his instagram I’m sure he had a good look at mine but he has 2 accounts and one of them shows a list of women on only fans and one particular woman ( this made me feel sick actually looking at it ) she’s an old lady and has all the kinky clothes boobs out ect and he follows her and comments on her pics so to be honest perhaps I need to nip this in the bud before it takes off that’s if it does as I’ve got the ick now after that , I know I’m not his girlfriend but still he’s 41 grow up !! And this is digcusting don’t you think ?

Red flag.

Just stop seeing him, he's a chump.

red flag! problems ahead. leave it.

It's like he's at a Communist party convention, with all those red flags.

Politely, if you have no problems with the other accounts it's a red flag for you to have issue with a woman because she is older. Not all women stop having a sexuality just because they get on in years, I'm sure you would hate to be referred to as disgusting just because you haven't got the pert tits of a 20 year old. At least you know this guy won't go off you when you're past yoor prime, as it were.

If the only fans thing is a deal breaker for you full stop then that is fine, but don't bring your ageism into it. You're not getting any younger.

@Anotherparkingthread yes have your opinion on it but I do think it’s vile for a man of his age to perv on a woman of that age - each to their own and all that but I’m not going to date someone going fwd who’s in to only fans which is a form of prostitution and I’m entitled to have my opinion on it and how men view women on it

I understand not wanting a partner who uses only fans but I'm bemused at your horror that he finds an older woman sexually appealing. So 19 year olds are ok but older women aren't.