Just need some advice, not sure what to think. Have a good relationship with my husband, all going well. Quiet open with using each other phones etc. A few weeks back found the following message from an unknown person on his phone in his company knowing I was using his phone:
Can't believe you have not done that before. Haha. My husband's reply. Sounds good. Be there in 5 mins. Checked the time of the message and it a Friday and he was in the house with me and did not leave the house. We had drinks and Chinese that night. So thought it was a screenshot of something. A few weeks later I found a happy face from the same unknown person. So. I thought this is not a screenshot. So I looked further and it appears he has been having a Skype conversation with a woman he worked with years ago and he changed her name to make it to a male he now works with. All conversations were deleted. I confronted him and he admitted that he had been in contact for 5 months. Something had happened to a mutual contact and he messaged her to see what had happened. He said he was working at home 5 days a week and needed to have general chats with anybody and was feeling lonely. He is very remorseful and has cut contact immediately. Said it was wrong and he actually wasn't looking for anything other than some banter during a long day. He says I am his and always is his priority and will work with me however I want and do anything to make me happy. He says he is petrified of losing and made massive error. I want to believe him but am I being stupid. I want to believe him but just don't know why he deleted the texts and changed the name