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Chemistry

9 replies

Cleo44 · 02/08/2023 14:31

I’ve met someone who I have fallen for very quickly. It’s hard to describe the feeling but it might be love at first sight ? It feels like I’ve known him forever, we are so at ease with each other he makes me feel alive again.
when we r together there’s like a chemistry between us and he told me he felt it too.
My question is coukd it be love ?

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Kitkatandcoffee · 02/08/2023 14:36

Lust. Which could then turn to love as you get to know each other or you could find out when you get to know each other you aren’t compatible.
Enjoy it for what it is at the minute.

Cleo44 · 02/08/2023 14:38

Yes I thought it was lust but we just want to be with each other not necessarily with any physical contact

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Watchkeys · 02/08/2023 14:44

It could be love. It could also not be love. You have to wait to find out.

Post again in a year.

GoodChat · 02/08/2023 14:45

How quickly?

ZigZag21 · 02/08/2023 14:51

I guess I felt like this. We are now 5 years in with a baby on the way.

Cleo44 · 02/08/2023 18:43

GoodChat · 02/08/2023 14:45

How quickly?

Almost instantly and he said he felt it too

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GoodChat · 02/08/2023 18:52

@Cleo44 how many times have you seen him?
It sounds like something to be wary of rather than excited about.

Cleo44 · 02/08/2023 18:55

Why wary ?

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GoodChat · 02/08/2023 18:58

@Cleo44 because either one or both of you is saying what you think the other wants to hear. It's way too easy to dive in head first and make yourself very vulnerable here.

Be excited but be practical.

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