Had a mutual crush on man in work. I'm separated now from difficult marriage. Both late forties. The crush has been dating this year which I was disappointed about so I've been avoiding him but he still checks me out.We never even talked other than for the very rare work issue. But I ve heard him still talking about me while at same time claiming to be loved up with his girlfriend. I actually heard him say to other men i could be his FB. I've went from really liking him to realising he's a big headed disgusting creep. I'm also beginning to think he's angry really because he now realises he's not got me on the back burner any more. I was his ego boost. It's making me miserable trying to keep out his way, I dislike him and feel a fool for catching his eye in the first place, but feel I've dodged a bullet.