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Narc abuse....what next from a textbook abuser?

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TitaniumTess · 18/07/2023 21:28

Summary....emotionally abusive ex......all the classic headwork, sulking, being accused of having affairs....v textbook. Hot and cold behaviour. Reading my personal affairs.

Lots of post separation abuse.....shouting...messaging.....not buying our child clothes...making handovers awful. Trying to get back together again.

Used family court to abuse me further....false allegations ...using school....you name it....

Court is finished. We're communicating using an App. I am staying out of his way.

Just found out he has reported my Mum to the police.......she hasn't done anything.

What does he do next....? He seems so textbook.....what is the next stage??? Anyone know? Thanks xxxx

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Epidote · 19/07/2023 06:37

Basically no one knows. But if he has reported your mum with false allegation. Your mum can use it to report it back and maybe you can get all the proofs and ask for a non molestation order for you and her?

All the strength for you.

TitaniumTess · 19/07/2023 09:42

Thanks. She did do a 101 back and reported harassment. The police don't seem bothered ref Stalking Protection Orders etc.

We're trying to stay well clear of the chap

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