So, my oh and father of 3 kids works full time and earns 50,000k per year.
I work 25hours per week and earn around 15k per year.
Oh gives me five hundred per month toward bills and that's it. He keeps the rest and spends it on himself.
He doesn't buy anything for the home, kids, days out, holidays, nothing!
I also look after his child from prev marraige every fortnight and buy us all takeaways ect.
So basically, his monthly income after tax is between 3 and 3.5k, he gives me 500 and blows the rest (no savings or anything).
My monthly income (including his 500) is 1800 but paying out each month is 1500.
So I have 300 left and he has 2-3k.
My 300 has to be spent on kids ect and he spends his on himself and in bookies.
Have argued many times over this, e doesn't see a problem with it...and nothing changes.
What do I do???